Nina's transition story as she narrates:
It’s ironic that the thing I feared the most turned out to be my most striking feature that I have come to love.
My name is Nina, and I am from New Jersey, USA. I am happily married to an amazing man and mom to a precious 4 year old.
I don’t remember the exact age I saw my gray hair come in. I do know that because of genetics premature graying runs in my family. My dad was gray in his early 30s. I grayed in my late 20 s early 30s. I dyed my hair with semi permanent color for almost a decade.
Having my son was the catalyst to me going gray. I did not have the time and energy to be a slave to my roots every 2 weeks. My mom had gone through the gray hair transition or “skunk” grow out as I called it. I did not like the transition but once her gray crown fully came in it was STUNNING!
I decided for me that I wanted to cut my hair so that the contrast of growing out my hair was less painful. I had already done a “big chop” to embrace my natural hair in 2011.
I did get comments especially that I was too young to have so much gray. I find that self compassion is an amazing tool on the gray hair journey. I learned to accept that some comments did sting and that I did have insecure moments.
I also was able to learn how to have an emotional boundary and make sure that I was not allowing others opinions to be my truth.
I love using kaolin clay and purple shampoo and conditioners to brighten my white and gray. I also try to use styling products with no color to help avoid yellowing my hair. I am still testing what works for my hair.
After going grey I felt even more comfortable in my skin to wear a red lip and Lots of Color. I find that I wear less jewelry because it’s like my hair is it’s own piece.
I have never felt so comfortable in my own skin as I do now. I challenged the belief that I would look old going gray. I also proved to myself that beauty is not defined by the color of my hair.
I am seeing that when you see more of those who look like you you feel you belong.
Nina's words of wisdom:
I am so happy to see the many women breaking the stereotypes especially that women only gray when they are older.
I love that we are showing gray can be beautiful.
I would say to women that no one escapes the gray hair process. When you embrace your gray you may be pleasantly surprised and how much you gain rather than lose.
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