“Six years into an early menopause was enough of a challenge without the bi-monthly time and energy spent in the hairdresser’s chair, despite their best efforts I always left the salon feeling unhappy and low. The glint of what laid underneath the mask of dye was still visible and I began to wonder again, how much worse could my ‘real’ hair colour look? “
Sarah was not happy colouring her hair as the permanent dye made her scalp sore. She tried switching to semi-permanent dye which was unable to cover the grays.
“I can remember considering ditching the dye when I was around 35-40 but I was single then and at that time, believed I might stay so if I were to stop colouring! )
So, at my next visit to the hairdresser I discussed my desire to go ‘natural’ , she felt it was not the right time to stop colouring along with all of my friends and family who voiced concerns that it would ‘age’ me. But, I persisted and my hairdresser agreed to strip the dark brown hair colour I had been using for over 20 years! As you can imagine, it was not an easy task and I spent a few weeks with patchy blorange and finally had the colour lifted with a bleach bath and dyed lightest ash blonde, (which again I hated) In the weeks and months that followed my hair was frazzled and broke off.”
In 2016, while heading towards her new job in the city where Sarah would be meeting clients on a daily basis. She got her hair cut into a short bob, but work stress and hormones imbalances soon created further hair loss and the daily wash was worsening the situation.
The low point
“I decided to stop everything and wore my hair in a ponytail washing only once every four days and within six weeks I began to see an improvement in the condition. Three months into the transition my (male) manager came to the office and said loudly “So, Sarah…what’s going on with your hair?” I blushed and felt humilated but joked defensively “I’m not letting myself go… I’m doing this on purpose!”
Looking back I suppose this was a turning point and I started to feel empowered by my decision, that’s when I decided to document the transition on Instagram. At first I was embarrassed to post selfies but very quickly the support I received from others on the same path really spurred me on to stick with it. The silver community has been incredibly encouraging on the bad as well as the good days and I feel I’ve made real friendships through this process.”
People's reaction now!
“I recently went to a fiftieth birthday party where there were lots of old friends I’d not seen for a few years. Some commented on how well I looked, others mentioned I looked younger, but I’m not concerned with that.
I am just happy that my reflection finally mirrors how I feel inside, it’s like I’ve returned to myself and it’s a nice feeling.”
Sarah's Hair Care Routine:
I also use Maui Moisture Hibiscus water products as they are really hydrating. Purple shampoos I use ocassionally are Fanola’s No more Yellow and Provoke’s Touch of Silver which are great for knocking out the yellow tones but are a little drying.
Words of Wisdom from Sarah to others starting out or thinking of ditching the dye-
A Carousel of Sarah's Grey Hair Transition
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